tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post4451823094387906860..comments2023-10-05T06:59:00.960-05:00Comments on HorseCentric: I Did It. But Not Without SERIOUS Trepidation...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13104422629934443842noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-65311048942685836592011-07-14T13:58:26.321-05:002011-07-14T13:58:26.321-05:00Congrats for getting out there!
I used to get anx...Congrats for getting out there!<br /><br />I used to get anxious when I went out on the trail with Grayson but then I realized he takes pretty good care of me out there. I need to trust him more than I do.<br /><br />It's all part of the journey and no one is setting a deadline (also something I have to tell myself).<br /><br />I sing "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star" or hum "The Limbo" when I get nervous in the saddle. It forces me to breathe...so ya, I agree with that suggestion!Julie Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02142733317969099441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-84696871567617677752011-07-13T22:57:50.681-05:002011-07-13T22:57:50.681-05:00Hooray! Good for you!
~LisaHooray! Good for you!<br /><br />~LisaLaughing Orca Ranchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03562627840013868980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-81118888673864988202011-07-12T12:14:39.957-05:002011-07-12T12:14:39.957-05:00Yeay, glad you had a good trail ride back!
Yep, i...Yeay, glad you had a good trail ride back!<br /><br />Yep, it's tough...I'm still working through "it" too...<br /><br />Funny on the singing. I've never heard that suggested for calming down a ride before, but I've done it plenty. Not only on horseback, but with my kids, by myself - music is a powerful thing. Congrats on being courageous, and successful!!aurorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04731529798233954353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-91106666055343483652011-07-11T20:13:12.449-05:002011-07-11T20:13:12.449-05:00Breathe, Good for you, good for you! Just keep go...Breathe, Good for you, good for you! Just keep going at whatever pace you are comfortable with. Congratulations!Janhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00141033474195269489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-18300259949798191962011-07-11T17:46:33.536-05:002011-07-11T17:46:33.536-05:00I think it's great you got out there and didn&...I think it's great you got out there and didn't chicken out. John Wayne once said something to the effect that "courage means being scared to death but saddling up anyway." Well it took a lot of courage to go out on the trail but you did it and I'm sure there will be many more times in your future where you just keep taking deep breaths and relax your way back to confidence.Grey Horse Mattershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05837575441967937196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-58892014559817061552011-07-11T14:58:26.676-05:002011-07-11T14:58:26.676-05:00Good for you! That's awesome :)Good for you! That's awesome :)Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00139769676714813261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-40068242594897011032011-07-11T14:29:36.336-05:002011-07-11T14:29:36.336-05:00I was wondering how it went...it can only be uphil...I was wondering how it went...it can only be uphill from here on out! I hope you gave yourself some pats on the back for starting to work through this, too.Captain Baileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09294085455860971795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-80386639225583242072011-07-11T12:50:57.841-05:002011-07-11T12:50:57.841-05:00Yay, you!!!! You did it. Big "Congratulatio...Yay, you!!!! You did it. Big "Congratulations!" to both of you.Wolfiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04743943656869294788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-85210881613357914152011-07-11T10:19:24.548-05:002011-07-11T10:19:24.548-05:00The info here might be helpful to you: http://www....The info here might be helpful to you: http://www.zenhorsemanship.com/ThePassengerLessonPart1.pdf. <br /><br />It's from a clicker training site but you can still use the info if you aren't clicker training. It's more about finding a way to feel comfortable on your horse. I'll be using this when I get back on my mare.smazourekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03029180368325070266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-58500345304537143912011-07-11T08:58:18.847-05:002011-07-11T08:58:18.847-05:00That was a big step and I understand completely ho...That was a big step and I understand completely how you feel. Controlling our own minds is sometimes the biggest challenge. A couple suggestions given to me have been to sing and to suck on a Peppermint. Peppermint is supposed to be calming. (But I'm afraid I'd choke on the Peppermint if I had it in mouth while riding, ha!) Keep up the good work.Once Upon an Equinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08807098276875052982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-77574400145786084732011-07-11T06:14:06.020-05:002011-07-11T06:14:06.020-05:00I am so proud of you. Just keep taking one baby s...I am so proud of you. Just keep taking one baby step at a time, and you'll get there.Maiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06829925970369556886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-78719971018899151052011-07-11T05:53:53.234-05:002011-07-11T05:53:53.234-05:00Heh, you did it - that's what matters - just l...Heh, you did it - that's what matters - just like with the horses you start with the rough cut and then refine until you get to where you want.<br /><br />I think congratulations are in order!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-47306317787640283922011-07-11T04:59:31.782-05:002011-07-11T04:59:31.782-05:00You got out there! Yay!
I'm telling you: SIN...You got out there! Yay! <br /><br />I'm telling you: SING. If you can't think of what, do Christmas carols. It really, really helps.Leah Fryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18158981037468411293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-70791501416234645102011-07-10T23:32:04.507-05:002011-07-10T23:32:04.507-05:00I have to tell you, my personal experience is some...I have to tell you, my personal experience is somewhat mirroring yours right now. My horse spooked and dumped me on a trail ride a few months ago, and Friday was my first trail ride since. Part of the delay was genuine (EHV-1 caused my barn to lock down shortly after my fall, and I've otherwise been quite busy), but part was procrastination, too. So I was worried on Friday, just like you... and Panama was a bit up at first too, just like Smokey. For some reason the park was busier than usual on a Friday morning, and between that and my anxiety, Panama was almost zinging under me! I hate that feeling! He did relax and settle in about halfway through the ride, though. We'll need some work to get ourselves up to where we were last year, when we were trail riding 3 times a week, but I'm glad we got the "first time back out" out of the way at last!Katharine Swanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16805523619692744514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-56995539596209248062011-07-10T23:29:35.493-05:002011-07-10T23:29:35.493-05:00Good for you for doing it! It's so hard, I kno...Good for you for doing it! It's so hard, I know. The first time I got back on after my accident, I had to gather cattle. At one point I literally got off my horse and sobbed. I had to walk for a ways. It was just SO hard to ride. I sympathize with what you're going thru. It does get better, I promise.Mikeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03574914465998507310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-60070834474260752252011-07-10T22:17:50.626-05:002011-07-10T22:17:50.626-05:00Bravo. It will get better, because you want it, an...Bravo. It will get better, because you want it, and have the determination to make it happen.Shirleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15454110560303310751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-36913145734527734392011-07-10T21:38:50.781-05:002011-07-10T21:38:50.781-05:00Breathe, I can only talk from Betty's experien...Breathe, I can only talk from Betty's experience after her accident on her first horse. It did take a long time, but the best thing was she didn't rush it. We rode a lot in our back. The way I think of it is she would ride up to her fear to face it, but didn't try to force herself through it. What happened is over time that fear was further away so she could ride more before coming up to it. Eventually she said let's go for a short trail ride. We took a lot of short trail rides, sometimes going back to our back lot. Eventually, the trail rides got longer.<br /><br />The key is you're right. Smokey will sense your tension. You want to stay in situations that you're comfortable with until your body becomes more and more comfortable in the saddle. As you relax, you'll sense Smokey relax and you both can go a little further.<br /><br />Again, way too long, but I want to encourage you in the best way I know.<br /><br />Keep up the good work.<br /><br />DanDan and Bettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16528072506443312280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-34539488726754186362011-07-10T21:35:04.226-05:002011-07-10T21:35:04.226-05:00Good for you. And good for your horse.
BillGood for you. And good for your horse.<br /><br />BillAllenspark Lodgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06390004633731055728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371458020564881376.post-88860309337045981792011-07-10T21:09:20.066-05:002011-07-10T21:09:20.066-05:00At least you got out there, good job!At least you got out there, good job!Gabriella Elisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07654181597852687661noreply@blogger.com